Scarlett Serafemme: British Domme & tender sadist

I am Mistress Scarlett Serafemme, a British Dominatrix based in the San Francisco Bay Area. I am an experimentalist in the arts of desire and denial. Apply to Serve on my website (scarlettserafemme.com) My dominance is sensual, intuitive, exacting. I take great pleasure in playing with contrast. I feel so alive when I’m in the role of the alchemist, blending softness and severity or levity and darkness to craft something that’s intoxicatingly bespoke. It will have you trying to piece together and recreate what happened in your fantasies long after we meet. And then there is my love of the tease, the unexpected delight of the ache that can only be appreciated when I hold you long enough in your longing. You’ll find yourself in the exquisite space between wanting something and being fully denied it. I have always been a person who notices more than people expect. When you’re with me you’ll feel that. You’ll feel closely observed with the intensity of my attention all over you. I enjoy how the body will give away its desires before they can be confessed out loud. There may come a moment you realize I’ve been watching you much longer than you thought, but by then it will probably be too late. I savor the slowness of getting to know my submissives and how the tension builds the deeper we go together. I’ll take my time to carefully map out the architecture of a person. Through experimentation, conversation and play I’ll learn your edges, hidden longings and fears. I see this level of knowing as sacred, something to be held and treasured as it is so rare in our day to day lives. If I choose you, we’ll explore the unknown depths as I build a world around us where you can access parts of yourself that don’t have room in your everyday. I welcome those parts and look forward to seeing what they can become in my hands. I am drawn to those who are truly curious and thoughtful about their submission. I know that surrender is a choice that is made with strength and care and I honor that. I work best with those who can communicate honestly, be present and are open to being affected by what unfolds. If you are drawn to depth and curious what it would be like to offer yourself over fully, I would be pleased to consider your application to serve me.