Domina Lori DiLetto

Psychotherapist half the time, dominatrix the rest. Now sessioning out of an exclusive private dungeon in Dyker Heights, Brooklyn—no one uses this fully equipped play space but me. I also offer outcalls to Brooklyn and Manhattan and travel once per month to other cities. In addition to the typical à la carte hourly offerings, I'm thrilled to introduce a unique submissive training program that draws on my 15 years of BDSM practice and my extensive education in sexuality and psychology: BECOME USEFUL. "Become Useful" is an erotic coaching experience that guides you to submissive self-actualization in a 6-week-long psychosexual intensive (or a 5-day accelerated version for clients outside of the New York metro area; see FMTY under Touring below). Psychotherapy is my day job, but using similar skills to turn you into a slave is my calling. By the end of our time together, you’ll be collared and given priority appointments for a tribute rate much lower than à la carte sessions. Or, you can choose to walk away at any time—primarily because I know you won't want to. Visit my website to learn more about how it works and to apply. If you're not ready to commit, reach out about a one-to-two-hour appointment, and get a taste of what devotion could mean. I do not have a menu of fetishes to select from. I do what I feel is necessary to begin working my way inside your head (respecting limits, of course). This begins with talking and often progresses to bondage, sensory deprivation, and either tease and denial or punishment and reward, depending on the prevailing mood. Some other activities I enjoy incorporating, at my discretion: elaborate role play scenarios, cock and ball torture (CBT), impact play (spanking, paddling, flogging, caning), foot worship, and strap-on worship. My schedule fills up quickly, so reach out sooner rather than later.